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		<title>Comment on Second anti-gay e-mail calls for changes at USD by greg staggs</title>
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		<dc:creator>greg staggs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 14:54:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>i  think it&#039;s  sad  just  because, someone   wants  to  be  with  someone,  of  the  same  sex,  they  should  decide  who  they  want  to  love  and  be  with,  just  because    they have  gay dances  or  concerts  at  one  of  the  schools,  does not  mean  that  everyone,  is  going  to  be  gay  that  should  be  decided  by  that person,  and  no  one  else,  honey  there  are  gonna  be  gays  everywhere  even  in the  bathrooms,  just  because  we  all  take  a  piss  in  front  of everybody,  does  not  mean  we  are  all  gay,  unless  they  want  some  action  so  honey  even  if  you  pull your kids  out  of  school,  he&#039;s  still  gonna  run  into  gays</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>i  think it&#8217;s  sad  just  because, someone   wants  to  be  with  someone,  of  the  same  sex,  they  should  decide  who  they  want  to  love  and  be  with,  just  because    they have  gay dances  or  concerts  at  one  of  the  schools,  does not  mean  that  everyone,  is  going  to  be  gay  that  should  be  decided  by  that person,  and  no  one  else,  honey  there  are  gonna  be  gays  everywhere  even  in the  bathrooms,  just  because  we  all  take  a  piss  in  front  of everybody,  does  not  mean  we  are  all  gay,  unless  they  want  some  action  so  honey  even  if  you  pull your kids  out  of  school,  he&#8217;s  still  gonna  run  into  gays</p>
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		<title>Comment on Resurrected Furniture surprises and delights by bill</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/resurrected-furniture-surprises-and-delights/comment-page-1/#comment-8927</link>
		<dc:creator>bill</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2012 02:43:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have the same Romeo and Juliet lamps, this is the first time I&#039;ve ever saw anyone else with them.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Aspirins for all my friends by Rachel Laing</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/aspirins-for-all-my-friends/comment-page-1/#comment-8750</link>
		<dc:creator>Rachel Laing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 May 2012 05:25:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It was an especially good column, very juicy and breezily written. God help us all. You are getting your columnist sea legs.

No retraction necessary. You don&#039;t need a tinfoil hat to draw the connections between Tom and me or Nathan and the coalition&#039;s creators. But again, there&#039;s a reason Nathan is the coalition&#039;s patron saint, if you will. He&#039;s someone people believe will try to solve problems -- not to stand smack dab in the middle of the two poles (which, it&#039;s undeniable, have moved steadily rightward), but to listen to reason and arguments from all sides and make decision based on the merits rather than having to consider the imminent angry phone calls from a certain party boss. 

Is this idealistic? Sure. But wouldn&#039;t we rather have someone at least start in the right place before the realities of running government start their erosive process.

Now I ask you, as you list your litany of utterly righteous complaints, do you think, hmmm ... No matter who&#039;s in power, we never seem to get past the same ridiculous arguments? 40 years after Roe v. wade, we&#039;re still letting Republicans bring up this long-settled issue. I think you yourself asked: What if there were political penalties for this? 

That is part of the M2TM goal too -- stop letting ourselves get distracted from real, pressing policy issues. Give a voice to the many, many people who believe this isn&#039;t a discussion we should be having at this point, any more than we should be having a discussion about government takeovers of newspapers. It&#039;s an inalienable right for a woman to control our reproductive health and fertility. Next!

Clearly it&#039;s time for that burger n&#039; beer night...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was an especially good column, very juicy and breezily written. God help us all. You are getting your columnist sea legs.</p>
<p>No retraction necessary. You don&#8217;t need a tinfoil hat to draw the connections between Tom and me or Nathan and the coalition&#8217;s creators. But again, there&#8217;s a reason Nathan is the coalition&#8217;s patron saint, if you will. He&#8217;s someone people believe will try to solve problems &#8212; not to stand smack dab in the middle of the two poles (which, it&#8217;s undeniable, have moved steadily rightward), but to listen to reason and arguments from all sides and make decision based on the merits rather than having to consider the imminent angry phone calls from a certain party boss. </p>
<p>Is this idealistic? Sure. But wouldn&#8217;t we rather have someone at least start in the right place before the realities of running government start their erosive process.</p>
<p>Now I ask you, as you list your litany of utterly righteous complaints, do you think, hmmm &#8230; No matter who&#8217;s in power, we never seem to get past the same ridiculous arguments? 40 years after Roe v. wade, we&#8217;re still letting Republicans bring up this long-settled issue. I think you yourself asked: What if there were political penalties for this? </p>
<p>That is part of the M2TM goal too &#8212; stop letting ourselves get distracted from real, pressing policy issues. Give a voice to the many, many people who believe this isn&#8217;t a discussion we should be having at this point, any more than we should be having a discussion about government takeovers of newspapers. It&#8217;s an inalienable right for a woman to control our reproductive health and fertility. Next!</p>
<p>Clearly it&#8217;s time for that burger n&#8217; beer night&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Comment on Aspirins for all my friends by Linda Perine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linda Perine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 05 May 2012 02:49:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Rach – thank you for your comment.  I actually adore you more, so if you say TS had nothing to do with M2TM, I believe you.  I am bitterly disappointed at this news because:
 1.  I thought the convenient creation of M2TM immediately after Nathan’s free at last declaration was absolutely brilliant political theater and I wanted to credit TS (who I still believe to be one of the true adepts).  
2.  I lose my vaguely pretentious reference to Athena springing forth full grown from the head of Zeus, which had given me a certain street cred among the cute girl geekarati.  Sigh.  Do I have to print a full retraction or will this statement of contrition, along with footing the bill for an evening of the beverage(s) of both your choices, suffice???
Having surrendered without a fight on the forehead thing, I do want to push back a little on your protestations of purity for M2TM.  First of all the timing and the pretty much 1:1 correlation  of founders and Nathan supporters makes me think of Captain Renault - “I am shocked, shocked to find there is politics going on here.”   Because you told me, I now know it isn’t coming from your office, but someone, somewhere,  is doing some pretty nifty political maneuvering.   And I am fine with that.  I’m from Texas where politics is a contact sport and I’m an ardent admirer of the end around and the long ball.
All joshing aside, I take M2TM seriously. With all the ‘illionaires involved, ya kinda have to.  But apart from urging more politeness and lending instantaneous cred to Nathan, where’s the beef?  The extreme ideology and nihilism of the right wing has made scaling to the “middle” inherently suspect.  When there is an 800 pound gorilla of religious zealotry and a clear intent to legislate for the 1% sitting at one end of the scale, the “middle” slides way past moderate. 
Thanks to the right wing, a half century after Roe v Wade and Stonewall, we are still debating whether women and gay people are full and equal citizens.  Income and health inequality rivals 3rd world levels.  An unregulated Wall Street has damaged, perhaps fatally, the economic engine that allowed for a sizeable and prosperous middle class.  In the process of protecting the profits of multi-national corporations we are transferring wealth to an extreme that is inimical to a democratic society.  I must confess to seeing little to admire in an economic system that creates a few thousand uber-rich and millions of serfs.  To acknowledge these huge problems is not leftist.  It is factual.
So props to the M2TM folks for encouraging civility and more communication, but I am concerned that seeking  a middle ground with the political philosophy of Grover Norquist and Carl Rove is to misapprehend the problem and, indeed, exacerbate it.  That’s my issue with M2TM, and with Nathan.
Oy.  Now my head really hurts.  Thanks for being a reader of my column.  That’s 3 of us now.  I look forward to paying my debt for implying that Tom was Zeus.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Rach – thank you for your comment.  I actually adore you more, so if you say TS had nothing to do with M2TM, I believe you.  I am bitterly disappointed at this news because:<br />
 1.  I thought the convenient creation of M2TM immediately after Nathan’s free at last declaration was absolutely brilliant political theater and I wanted to credit TS (who I still believe to be one of the true adepts).<br />
2.  I lose my vaguely pretentious reference to Athena springing forth full grown from the head of Zeus, which had given me a certain street cred among the cute girl geekarati.  Sigh.  Do I have to print a full retraction or will this statement of contrition, along with footing the bill for an evening of the beverage(s) of both your choices, suffice???<br />
Having surrendered without a fight on the forehead thing, I do want to push back a little on your protestations of purity for M2TM.  First of all the timing and the pretty much 1:1 correlation  of founders and Nathan supporters makes me think of Captain Renault &#8211; “I am shocked, shocked to find there is politics going on here.”   Because you told me, I now know it isn’t coming from your office, but someone, somewhere,  is doing some pretty nifty political maneuvering.   And I am fine with that.  I’m from Texas where politics is a contact sport and I’m an ardent admirer of the end around and the long ball.<br />
All joshing aside, I take M2TM seriously. With all the ‘illionaires involved, ya kinda have to.  But apart from urging more politeness and lending instantaneous cred to Nathan, where’s the beef?  The extreme ideology and nihilism of the right wing has made scaling to the “middle” inherently suspect.  When there is an 800 pound gorilla of religious zealotry and a clear intent to legislate for the 1% sitting at one end of the scale, the “middle” slides way past moderate.<br />
Thanks to the right wing, a half century after Roe v Wade and Stonewall, we are still debating whether women and gay people are full and equal citizens.  Income and health inequality rivals 3rd world levels.  An unregulated Wall Street has damaged, perhaps fatally, the economic engine that allowed for a sizeable and prosperous middle class.  In the process of protecting the profits of multi-national corporations we are transferring wealth to an extreme that is inimical to a democratic society.  I must confess to seeing little to admire in an economic system that creates a few thousand uber-rich and millions of serfs.  To acknowledge these huge problems is not leftist.  It is factual.<br />
So props to the M2TM folks for encouraging civility and more communication, but I am concerned that seeking  a middle ground with the political philosophy of Grover Norquist and Carl Rove is to misapprehend the problem and, indeed, exacerbate it.  That’s my issue with M2TM, and with Nathan.<br />
Oy.  Now my head really hurts.  Thanks for being a reader of my column.  That’s 3 of us now.  I look forward to paying my debt for implying that Tom was Zeus.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Offering a complete roundup of San Diego’s LGBT athletics by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/offering-a-complete-roundup-of-san-diegos-lgbt-athletics/comment-page-1/#comment-8738</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 22:47:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Editor&#039;s note: this was sent to Gay San Diego via e-mail, and we wanted to make sure it was posted immediately. Thank you to Jerry Buckley for sending in the information. 

Jeff Praught’s recent article offering a roundup of LGBT athletics in San Diego (Vol. 3, Issue 8), did not include Front Runners &amp; Walkers San Diego.  

With close to 200 members, FRWSD is an active organization for the LGBT community and non-gay family members and friends who seek to have healthy, active lives. Front Runners welcomes runners and walkers of all abilities and ages, from beginners and recreational participants to highly experienced and competitive athletes.  The group meets by the entrance to Balboa Park at Laurel Street and Sixth Avenue on Saturday mornings at 8:00 a.m., on Monday and Wednesday evenings at 6:00 p.m. and conducts a Speed Training Session on Tuesday evenings at 6:00 p.m. 

Another major project sponsored by FRWSD is the annual Run &amp; Stride with Pride 5K Race.  This year’s race takes place Saturday morning, July 21st at 10:00AM on the Pride parade route.  It’s a fast and flat course, certified and sanctioned by USAT&amp;F.  FRWSD also provides members with social activities and members participate in numerous special events.  More information about the club is available on our website, frwsd.org or check us out on Facebook, Front Runners &amp; Walkers San Diego.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Editor&#8217;s note: this was sent to Gay San Diego via e-mail, and we wanted to make sure it was posted immediately. Thank you to Jerry Buckley for sending in the information. </p>
<p>Jeff Praught’s recent article offering a roundup of LGBT athletics in San Diego (Vol. 3, Issue 8), did not include Front Runners &#038; Walkers San Diego.  </p>
<p>With close to 200 members, FRWSD is an active organization for the LGBT community and non-gay family members and friends who seek to have healthy, active lives. Front Runners welcomes runners and walkers of all abilities and ages, from beginners and recreational participants to highly experienced and competitive athletes.  The group meets by the entrance to Balboa Park at Laurel Street and Sixth Avenue on Saturday mornings at 8:00 a.m., on Monday and Wednesday evenings at 6:00 p.m. and conducts a Speed Training Session on Tuesday evenings at 6:00 p.m. </p>
<p>Another major project sponsored by FRWSD is the annual Run &#038; Stride with Pride 5K Race.  This year’s race takes place Saturday morning, July 21st at 10:00AM on the Pride parade route.  It’s a fast and flat course, certified and sanctioned by USAT&#038;F.  FRWSD also provides members with social activities and members participate in numerous special events.  More information about the club is available on our website, frwsd.org or check us out on Facebook, Front Runners &#038; Walkers San Diego.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Opinion/Letters May 4 by CitizenKurt</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/opinionletters-may-4/comment-page-1/#comment-8734</link>
		<dc:creator>CitizenKurt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 21:36:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David W is obviously a highly intelligent man!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Aspirins for all my friends by Rachel Laing</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rachel Laing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 20:40:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I positively adore you, Linda, but you are simply wrong about Movement to the Middle. You know me pretty well and know I&#039;m a &quot;disloyal&quot; Democrat. In other words, I vote based on the person and what I believe they will do. I didn&#039;t renounce my party registration like many of M2TM folks -- and that&#039;s certainly not a requirement of joining the coalition. 

No one is asking folks to stop voting for politicians who are in a party. We&#039;re saying vote for the people who are willing to work with others parties and not live according to party dictates when doing so doesn&#039;t best serve the people who elected you to represent them. It&#039;s not impossible; those people do exist, and they wouldn&#039;t have to fear for their existence if they thought they had backup from the electorate to buck the party. M2TM aims to be that backup.

Furthermore, you know me quite well and we&#039;ve had heated disagreements among the many things we agree on, and I can say honestly Tom Shepard had absolutely nothing to do with M2TM. I know that because I&#039;m running the PR for this thing, and Tom knows only what I tell him -- which isn&#039;t much, because he&#039;s too busy running campaigns right now. 

Tom didn&#039;t bring the project to me, and the campaign isn&#039;t involved (although there&#039;s no question they&#039;re capitalizing on it in any way possible). I am many things (a remorselessly disloyal Dem, for instance), but I am not a liar, and I wouldn&#039;t say this if it weren&#039;t completely true. 

The people I&#039;m working with on M2TM are quite sincere in their desire to change the tone of politics, and the hundreds of people who&#039;ve signed up for our email list and called me excited about this are also genuine. They may or may not support Nathan (many don&#039;t live in the city of SD), but the idea resonates with them. 

Also, let&#039;s be clear: The CEO types who launched the coalition got the ball rolling, but the supporters jumping on board are not all rich folks or even very political; they&#039;re just people who are gratified to find there are others out there who share their sentiments.

Not that being rich ought to disqualify you from having opinions and building a coalition, but I do think it&#039;s important to point out that it&#039;s more than that.

Rock on, Linda.

-Rachel</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I positively adore you, Linda, but you are simply wrong about Movement to the Middle. You know me pretty well and know I&#8217;m a &#8220;disloyal&#8221; Democrat. In other words, I vote based on the person and what I believe they will do. I didn&#8217;t renounce my party registration like many of M2TM folks &#8212; and that&#8217;s certainly not a requirement of joining the coalition. </p>
<p>No one is asking folks to stop voting for politicians who are in a party. We&#8217;re saying vote for the people who are willing to work with others parties and not live according to party dictates when doing so doesn&#8217;t best serve the people who elected you to represent them. It&#8217;s not impossible; those people do exist, and they wouldn&#8217;t have to fear for their existence if they thought they had backup from the electorate to buck the party. M2TM aims to be that backup.</p>
<p>Furthermore, you know me quite well and we&#8217;ve had heated disagreements among the many things we agree on, and I can say honestly Tom Shepard had absolutely nothing to do with M2TM. I know that because I&#8217;m running the PR for this thing, and Tom knows only what I tell him &#8212; which isn&#8217;t much, because he&#8217;s too busy running campaigns right now. </p>
<p>Tom didn&#8217;t bring the project to me, and the campaign isn&#8217;t involved (although there&#8217;s no question they&#8217;re capitalizing on it in any way possible). I am many things (a remorselessly disloyal Dem, for instance), but I am not a liar, and I wouldn&#8217;t say this if it weren&#8217;t completely true. </p>
<p>The people I&#8217;m working with on M2TM are quite sincere in their desire to change the tone of politics, and the hundreds of people who&#8217;ve signed up for our email list and called me excited about this are also genuine. They may or may not support Nathan (many don&#8217;t live in the city of SD), but the idea resonates with them. </p>
<p>Also, let&#8217;s be clear: The CEO types who launched the coalition got the ball rolling, but the supporters jumping on board are not all rich folks or even very political; they&#8217;re just people who are gratified to find there are others out there who share their sentiments.</p>
<p>Not that being rich ought to disqualify you from having opinions and building a coalition, but I do think it&#8217;s important to point out that it&#8217;s more than that.</p>
<p>Rock on, Linda.</p>
<p>-Rachel</p>
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		<title>Comment on Aspirins for all my friends by CitizenKurt</title>
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		<dc:creator>CitizenKurt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 20:10:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This weeks column was some easy reading!  Thanks for the (sort of) mention!   :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This weeks column was some easy reading!  Thanks for the (sort of) mention!   <img src='http://www.gay-sd.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Showing heart and harmony for 25 years by admin</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/showing-heart-and-harmony-for-25-years/comment-page-1/#comment-8728</link>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 16:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Got it, thanks for the correction. It is fixed in the online version. Have fun this weekend!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Got it, thanks for the correction. It is fixed in the online version. Have fun this weekend!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Showing heart and harmony for 25 years by San Diego Women's Chorus</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/showing-heart-and-harmony-for-25-years/comment-page-1/#comment-8727</link>
		<dc:creator>San Diego Women's Chorus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 May 2012 16:32:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quick correction: Randi Driscoll will be performing at the May 5th concert, not May 6th. Thank you!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Your shadow knows by seth arren</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/your-shadow-knows/comment-page-1/#comment-8551</link>
		<dc:creator>seth arren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 May 2012 00:41:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well OK. I tried this a few days ago, and I thought about what i wrote and then kind of forgot about it, till just now, and the most interesting part is that the qualities i dislike about my &quot;someone&quot;- are in fact qualities i also have- yet do not often consider as apart of who i am. like being mean, or saying something but never really doing anything to back up my words with correspondingly appropriate behaviors or actions, stuff like that.  the &quot;someone&quot; i like/admire ended up really being the kind of person i see myself as being in the future sometime.  :)  anyway it was interesting and I enjoy reading your columns.  thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well OK. I tried this a few days ago, and I thought about what i wrote and then kind of forgot about it, till just now, and the most interesting part is that the qualities i dislike about my &#8220;someone&#8221;- are in fact qualities i also have- yet do not often consider as apart of who i am. like being mean, or saying something but never really doing anything to back up my words with correspondingly appropriate behaviors or actions, stuff like that.  the &#8220;someone&#8221; i like/admire ended up really being the kind of person i see myself as being in the future sometime.  <img src='http://www.gay-sd.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   anyway it was interesting and I enjoy reading your columns.  thanks.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Year-round pride flag near reality by frederick collazo</title>
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		<dc:creator>frederick collazo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Apr 2012 01:12:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>not everyone living or visiting this aria/neighborhood is gay,,your gayness is a private issue,,,and isnt saported by everyone,,,some people are still unexcepting of gayness,,fly your flag at your house, car, clothing, thats cool,,</description>
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		<title>Comment on Dining Out for Life’s sixth year by Gibran</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/dining-out-for-lifes-sixth-year/comment-page-1/#comment-8455</link>
		<dc:creator>Gibran</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 20:49:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;My dead are with me here today&quot;

In memory of: Gil Cuadros, Arturo Islas, Reinaldo Arenas, Joseph Beam and Essex Hemphill 

Today you celebrate
Like many other days of the week

Proclaim a reason

Dine out, Fight AIDS!

You craft and package this reason

Carefully and precisely
With marketing ploys and claims of convenience .
You use the phrases, &quot;Good cause,&quot; &quot;Noble&quot;, &quot;Raise awareness&quot; and I tell you that there is no awareness only complacency.

Motivating people to consume product--a conditioned behavior--because it&#039;s been ingrained in our society.
Consume products like you consume bodies (of color).
Consume food and drink
As la tierra consumes those bodies 
with stigmas labeled &quot;diseased&quot; &quot;plagued&quot; &quot;AIDS complicated&quot;.

As you wipe 
From your mouth 
the stains of your nourishment
I reflect how similar movements were made to wipe the stench of death, vomit, piss, shit from bodies whose vitality slowly leaves their body. 

Only those who bared witness: friends, lovers, rebellious family kept death at bay...if only for mins, hours, days...until the inevitable became real.
And we lose another life, a gift, a brother, lover, an elder whose knowledge bestowed could and would have saved some of our youth today.

You laugh as you socialize, as memories of tears/cries and sobs lie in the depths in the hearts of mourners who now can only remember...

Can you name a fallen brother?

Name three...? and if not than what is there to this &quot;cause&quot; if your appetite is met with apathy? 

Your dead are with you today. 

They roam those streets you drunkingly stumble on with bellies full as theirs once were with handful of &quot;meds&quot; we now call &quot;cocktails&quot;. 
And as you chase cock and tail tonight before falling on cum-stained sheets, your bodies vulnerable 

May the spirits of brothers lost protect and watch over you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;My dead are with me here today&#8221;</p>
<p>In memory of: Gil Cuadros, Arturo Islas, Reinaldo Arenas, Joseph Beam and Essex Hemphill </p>
<p>Today you celebrate<br />
Like many other days of the week</p>
<p>Proclaim a reason</p>
<p>Dine out, Fight AIDS!</p>
<p>You craft and package this reason</p>
<p>Carefully and precisely<br />
With marketing ploys and claims of convenience .<br />
You use the phrases, &#8220;Good cause,&#8221; &#8220;Noble&#8221;, &#8220;Raise awareness&#8221; and I tell you that there is no awareness only complacency.</p>
<p>Motivating people to consume product&#8211;a conditioned behavior&#8211;because it&#8217;s been ingrained in our society.<br />
Consume products like you consume bodies (of color).<br />
Consume food and drink<br />
As la tierra consumes those bodies<br />
with stigmas labeled &#8220;diseased&#8221; &#8220;plagued&#8221; &#8220;AIDS complicated&#8221;.</p>
<p>As you wipe<br />
From your mouth<br />
the stains of your nourishment<br />
I reflect how similar movements were made to wipe the stench of death, vomit, piss, shit from bodies whose vitality slowly leaves their body. </p>
<p>Only those who bared witness: friends, lovers, rebellious family kept death at bay&#8230;if only for mins, hours, days&#8230;until the inevitable became real.<br />
And we lose another life, a gift, a brother, lover, an elder whose knowledge bestowed could and would have saved some of our youth today.</p>
<p>You laugh as you socialize, as memories of tears/cries and sobs lie in the depths in the hearts of mourners who now can only remember&#8230;</p>
<p>Can you name a fallen brother?</p>
<p>Name three&#8230;? and if not than what is there to this &#8220;cause&#8221; if your appetite is met with apathy? </p>
<p>Your dead are with you today. </p>
<p>They roam those streets you drunkingly stumble on with bellies full as theirs once were with handful of &#8220;meds&#8221; we now call &#8220;cocktails&#8221;.<br />
And as you chase cock and tail tonight before falling on cum-stained sheets, your bodies vulnerable </p>
<p>May the spirits of brothers lost protect and watch over you.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Sitting down with Carl DeMaio by Bill Johnson</title>
		<link>http://www.gay-sd.com/sitting-down-with-carl-demaio/comment-page-1/#comment-8419</link>
		<dc:creator>Bill Johnson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2012 03:30:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The &quot;one librarian&quot; with the huge pension is the former City Librarian, who was the head of a department with several hundred employees and a budget in the millions. And Carl has the nerve to complain about &quot;cherry picking&quot;. This interview is the epitome of lazy journalism.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The &#8220;one librarian&#8221; with the huge pension is the former City Librarian, who was the head of a department with several hundred employees and a budget in the millions. And Carl has the nerve to complain about &#8220;cherry picking&#8221;. This interview is the epitome of lazy journalism.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your shadow knows by seth arren</title>
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		<dc:creator>seth arren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Apr 2012 14:07:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>OK. i like this idea.  fine.  i will do this- tasks 1, 2, &amp; 3. i will then &quot;notice, contemplate, and percolate&quot;- 4 &amp; 5,  for three days and get back with you...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK. i like this idea.  fine.  i will do this- tasks 1, 2, &amp; 3. i will then &#8220;notice, contemplate, and percolate&#8221;- 4 &amp; 5,  for three days and get back with you&#8230;</p>
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